From defensive to collaborative — the language toolkit for parents and carers of neurodivergent children.
Every behaviour is a child trying to meet a need. This kit gives you the exact words to name that need — to your child, to their teacher, and to yourself — so school conversations build partnership instead of defensiveness.
What's inside
· A ready-made language library that reframes 10+ common “problem” behaviours (won’t sit still, refuses to read, can’t handle group work) into solution-focused requests educators can act on
· Eight belief-shifting scripts for talking to your child about school, teachers, effort, and friendship — so setbacks build resilience instead of self-doubt
· The Three R’s coaching principle — a three-line script (Recognise, Reframe, Reinforce) for the moment your child needs your voice to become their inner voice
· The PATH framework for instructions that actually land (Plain expectation, Anchor, Template, Handover) — with worked examples for both home and classroom
· The AURA response framework, I-statements, and solution-focused questions for replying to difficult school emails without over-apologising or counter-attacking
· Seven fully written email templates covering the most common feedback situations — behaviour incidents, concentration concerns, social difficulties, meltdowns, and more
· The “About My Child” one-page profile — the single document every new teacher, relief teacher, or specialist should have on day one
· A fold-in-half pocket cheat sheet of go-to phrases for the moments you’re reaching for the wrong words
24 pages · instant digital download
From defensive to collaborative — the language toolkit for parents and carers of neurodivergent children.
Every behaviour is a child trying to meet a need. This kit gives you the exact words to name that need — to your child, to their teacher, and to yourself — so school conversations build partnership instead of defensiveness.
What's inside
· A ready-made language library that reframes 10+ common “problem” behaviours (won’t sit still, refuses to read, can’t handle group work) into solution-focused requests educators can act on
· Eight belief-shifting scripts for talking to your child about school, teachers, effort, and friendship — so setbacks build resilience instead of self-doubt
· The Three R’s coaching principle — a three-line script (Recognise, Reframe, Reinforce) for the moment your child needs your voice to become their inner voice
· The PATH framework for instructions that actually land (Plain expectation, Anchor, Template, Handover) — with worked examples for both home and classroom
· The AURA response framework, I-statements, and solution-focused questions for replying to difficult school emails without over-apologising or counter-attacking
· Seven fully written email templates covering the most common feedback situations — behaviour incidents, concentration concerns, social difficulties, meltdowns, and more
· The “About My Child” one-page profile — the single document every new teacher, relief teacher, or specialist should have on day one
· A fold-in-half pocket cheat sheet of go-to phrases for the moments you’re reaching for the wrong words
24 pages · instant digital download